I am the one female in our house. The one female with zero privacy. The zero privacy has not really been a big deal because I have the attitude that we all have bodies. I have the same parts as the next girl. I don’t want to be so private that my boys become “Peeping Toms” to figure out why girls shirts are lumpy.
I have a line though.
No one, not even my husband comes in while I am “shining my belly button.” I use the room where they all go number one and number two, but I am in there having private, quiet time. Girls don’t poop. They tinkle and our belly buttons require shining. This is all a very complicated lie because I don’t want my husband to think of me “releasing hostages,” as my boys call it.
When I had kids I began locking the door. It worked for a little while. When our older boys started crawling they would just sit up against the door and cry. When they got older they pounded on the door. Then when they could walk and talk and jimmy a door they would yell, “MooooooooMMMMMMMM!!!!!”
I would answer back, “I am in the powder room.”
They would then try and open it and I would say, “It is locked.”
And they would sweetly say, “Oh, I will get it.” and then they would pop the lock and come right in.
It has never occurred to them that I locked it to keep them out. It was always as if they were doing me a favor picking the lock so I wouldn’t have to get up and open it.
So I hid all of the shish kabob skewers!
Ha! I will show them.
If you come to my house and you notice a little rattle in the door knobs when you turn them, it’s just dried spaghetti noodles.
Peter is a resourceful boy and at 18 months old he could pop a lock in no time. When I took away the shish kabob skewers to give everyone some much needed….ehhhemmm…PRIVACY, he found the box of spaghetti noodles. They do not work well to open locked door.
He can’t open doors anymore (so I won), but our door handles are the big losers because they are filled with Peter’s foiled attempts at rudeness.
This leads me to several years later on a hot summers day and another…
“ONLY ABBIE HAS THESE EMBARRASSING THINGS HAPPEN TO HER STORIES”
It is mid morning and after doing my housework I announced I was going in to take a shower. I left the boys with their buddies in the driveway playing squirt gun wars.
I am all lathered up and facing the shower head with my eyes closed.
I turn around to rinse my hair and open my eyes to find…
all three of my boys and all of the neighbor boys standing there, in a line.
The door was locked! I know I locked it!
Remember, I do not lock it for them they think, despite years of explaining that mom needs private time. They just unlocked it while I had my back to the door.
We have a large shower with clear glass walls.
There is nowhere to hide.
“Can we have a Popsicle?”
They are all just looking at me.
“Out! Yes, and GET OUT!”
They all just turn around and walk out like, no biggie.
I am thinking I have to call their moms and tell them they saw me naked as a jay bird. I am thinking this is just a naked body. But it wasn’t…
I had to call the moms and tell them what their boys saw.
I knew I was going to have to explain that I watched a stupid Oprah show and got a Brazillian bikini wax to get ready for bathing suit season. As if having a Brazilian bikini wax wasn’t traumatizing enough!
Why? Why? Why is this always my timing with embarrassing moments? It couldn’t just be embarrassing enough for the neighborhood to see me full frontal naked I would also send an entire generation of boys into their teen years thinking their girlfriends are freaks because they have hair…”there.”
Abbie, All that makes you… allthatmakesyou.com
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That. Is. Hilarious.
Although I’m sure it wasn’t at the time.
I have a flat-out rule – Mom & Dad’s bedroom is OFF LIMITS any time they have friends over. This extends to the master bath.
Period. We have a first floor master, and I had to set a firm rule on the day we moved in.
Also….polishing your belly button???? Love it.
Marty Coleman, The Napkin Dad says
Yep, only to you. I can’t wait until your boys are old enough to have their own blogs to tell stories on. Then we will hear THEIR side of these stories!
Asifa Zunaidha says
oops… that’s very embarrassing for you and a hilarious read for me 😉
Hilarious! Abbie, I, too, am home with all dudes! I, too, have been barged in on while in the powder room – with the neighbor boys standing right beside my dudes. Very embarrassing! I feel your pain!
All that makes you... says
They really think of us as a utilitarian object. I am sure they categorize me like a blender or refrigerator or at the very least the blender operator. I am so glad you understand. My husband read this before I posted and made a very uncomfortable face, then I remembered I said I was lying about “shining my belly button” and I thought the face was for that, (I mean he knows we all do number two…HE IS A DOCTOR!) Turns out he found the whole story disturbing and told me he didn’t think I should post. Ha ha ha! I am such a bad listener. Thanks for enjoying and commenting. I think a lot of people were afraid of commenting! It is a little disturbing…
Abbie, thanks for the laughter to break up an otherwise dull afternoon! My wife and I have four sons (now 14, 17, 20, and 24) all still at home. I am sure you two could sit down for a few hours with stories to tell… and I’m looking forward to continuing to read about yours! Keep them coming!
All that makes you... says
I have hope…your wife is still alive and she isn’t in jail. For real. I came from an “all girl” family. I had no idea what I was in for. Wonderful ride! Thanks for coming by and I look forward to seeing you by again.
hahahahhahah Now that is funny
All that makes you... says
In retrospect and not when it is you! 😉